Essential

 

ESSENTIAL

A strong BLACK PENG GIRL

Raised and built different

She lives in the world

But feels far away from it

Because of where she comes from

A culture that varies from us

Society points at her

Here and there, that depresses and suppress her

Like a person being stranded to death

She tries to hard to fit in,

She tries so hard to be free like us

Her family and her fear

Every time they step out

So they isolate, like a person hidden 

behind close doors

But within, has a lively spirit, so much that humanity

Cannot handle a pure and free soul

Dances like a fearless warrior

Her footsteps draws souls closer to her

A young maiden, but has a mind of great philosophy

Someday, I believe she is going fabricate history.

The origins of dreadlocks can be traced back to ancient cultures around the world. The earliest written evidence of dreadlocks dates back to between 2500 and 1500 BC: the God Shiva and his followers are described as jaTaa, meaning « wearing knots of tangled hair ».

"Dreadlocks have long been discriminated against in the workplace due to negative stereotypes and misconceptions about natural hairstyles. Despite being a culturally significant hairstyle for many, some employers have viewed dreadlocks as unprofessional or unsuitable for the workplace." 8 Apr 2023

This is from an article I read on the internet.

In our part of the world, we look at the outward appearance and then just determine what the people are.

But what is most important is inner beauty.

Looking at  the inward part of a person makes it easier to understand and relate to people rather than being so judgemental, because we are all full of imperfections.  

The stares, discrimination, stigmatization and other unfair treatments because of your hair.

But through it all you embrace all of it and channelled your mind to positivity. 

Thank you Grace. I was so inspired by your story and how you overcame.

It made me understand a lot of controversial issues relating to your culture, family heritage and the likes.

 I am not only speaking about dreadlocks and people who have decided to live a particular lifestyle,

 but my advice is we should learn not to judge a book by it's cover.

 

So Grace, my Nigerian sister, this is dedicated to you.

Much 💗 

GOD BLESS YOU ALL!!!